Happy Valentine’s Day!!!! Whether you’re swinging single, in a relationship, in a complicated relationship, engaged, or married, may you have a day filled with love and joy!
In the spirit of Valentine’s Day, I thought I would share with you a little love story of mine.
Here’s the story of how I met the love of my life…
14 years ago I just started a new job and wasn’t even looking for love. I told myself I was going to take some time off from love and just do “ME.” As I was getting settled into my new work area, the office door shut, and I looked up to see who it was. This man walks in with the most beautiful smile. He said, “Hello” I could have fell out then and there, but I played it cool and said, “Hello.”
He had me at HELLO!
At that time, little did I know that this person would be someone I love so dearly today….My Husband!
This man is everything that I wanted. He lifts me when I cannot hold my own head up. He motivates me when I do not believe in myself. He loves me unconditionally and accepts my flaws. To this day, he still gives me butterflies!
Something I learned from this whole experience of falling in love that has helped me to be a better coach is… everyone deserves a second chance in life and love!
I’ve grown to become more in love with myself and realize that the person I needed the whole time was ME!!! Crazy, right?
The story about me is not to brag. It is to show you that love comes when you least expect it. Whether you are spending Valentine’s Day solo, with your kids, or your significant other, Love yourself first!!! YOU deserve to be loved by YOU!
Today treat yourself to your favorite dinner, buy your favorite flowers, tell yourself how much you love YOU and you cannot live with you!
Lots of love,
Arvilla
